Family debating my race. about 14 hours ago via txt

I am going to go cry for the entire month of March that you don’t even know this about yourself. What a wretched legacy this whole adoption crap has left you with. I can’t imagine not even knowing what race I am. And yet….my own daughter doesn’t know.  Somehow this didn’t turn out how I imagined/was told by my Bishop, parents, and social worker/pleaded with God that it would turn out.